. Connectedness to others: Numerous
correspondence with family members and friends, as well as the letters received
from them are documented. It's clear these messages were a source of comfort,
support, and joy. Note the letters to and from "Laddie," who I
believe is Hugh Percival Hoyt, the sweetheart she will marry in 1898. Also,
notice she often mentions friendly encounters and walks with fellow teachers,
as well as regular visits to parents of the children she taught, in clear
defiance of social conventions of the South. I recall her routine of writing
letters to family and friends and her open, sweet nature in relating to others
who visited in our home. She endeared herself to all.
. Appreciation of nature: Almost every entry
begins with a comment on the weather and delight in a beautiful day. I remember
her saying regularly: "This is the day the Lord has made. Let us rejoice
and be glad in it." Also, I recall her love of flowers and practice of making
attractive arrangements for our home. She took care to have the pansies show
their pretty faces in a vase, and the last time she visited us, she went
outside and said "Good-bye" to the flowers, trees, and birds she
loved so well.
. Thrift and orderliness: The cost of each purchase she made is carefully
documented, and there is no evidence of extravagance. Mending clothing was
regularly mentioned also. I remember her sewing basket and was intrigued with
the thimble she wore on her finger while sewing on buttons and mending. I have
a quilt she made from scraps including dresses worn by Ruth and Ada.
I trust you will enjoy
these treasures and get a sense of the wonderful person Kitty Hoyt was. We all
need good stories of lives well-lived to inspire, encourage, and bless us in
being the best we can be. I suggest that here is a family member who can do
just that.
I want to thank our
cousin, Joanne VerBryck Kissinger, and my husband, Bill Anderson, for their
assistance and encouragement in this endeavor.
With love,
~
Ann Edwards Fordham