From: Jo
Anne Schultz
To: jeh49341@chartermi.com
Sent: Friday,
November 30, 2007 12:11 AM
Subject: Re: Message from a ysearch user
Dear John E. Hoyt,
Thank you very much for your email. I wish that I knew more about my great-great
grandfather's origins so that I could answer your question. Benjamin Kip Haight was born ca 1812 in New
York (from the 1850 census of Gallatin
County, Kentucky). He was listed as a shoe and saddle maker and
paid taxes in Gallatin Couinty from 1845 until
1858. He was about 33 when he married
19 year-old Louisa Jane Alexander on May
1, 1845. Between 1847 and
1856, they had five children together.
Sometime between 1858 and 1863, he simply disappeared.
This is the family story:
"What is known is that he always made an annual
trip to Cincinnati for supplies. As
always, he had gotten in the fall crops, the winter's wood supply, etc., before
leaving. Then he set off--never to be
heard from again! Some have thought he
just walked off and left his family; maybe in the excitement
generated by the Civil War, etc., or just because he was tired of the
grind. He had left five children at
home, at any rate. However, that
doesn't ring true as far as I see it. It
seems out of character for a man of his age who obviously took thought for his
family's welfare. What seems more
likely to me is that someone who knew him and knew of his buying trips simply
decided to wait, knowing he would have money for his purchases, and killed and
robbed him, perhaps throwing his body in the river or buying it in the
woods. Of course, finding any trace
after all this time isn't likely; but the family he came from must have taken
notice of his leaving New York, or of whatever made him leave and
which resulted in his turning up in Kentucky.
My daughter and I even conjectured that he may have had another wife and
perhaps a family, although he evidently wasn't trying to hide his identify nor
to "cover his tracks" when he came to Kentucky--not in 1850 anyway. Yes, the 19-year old Eliza in the 1850
census was Benjamin's wife. I've heard
several different names besides Eliza--Lusianne,
Eliza Anne, Eliza Jane and Louisa Jane.
In October, 1983 my daughter and I found the churchyard where she is
buried. There is a modern stone, placed
by some of her family, I'm sure. On it
her name is Louisa Jane Hall (Hall being the name of her last husband). My aunts and uncles referred to her as
"Grandma Hall" whenever I asked about her. Aunt Lacy said that she was 15 when she
married Benjamin (an arranged marriage?) and a fun-loving young girl tied to an
old man. I have an idea that Aunt Lacy
may have gotten this description from her grandma although I didn't ask. At any rate she stayed with him "for
better or worse" and bore those children, and still had enough on the ball
to get a few more husbands." Mary
Murphy.
Several of Benjamin Kip
Haight's descendants have worked hard over the years trying to trace our
mysterious ancestor back to his family in New York,
but without any luck. I began to wonder
if Haight was even his real name. That
is why I asked my brother, Cecil Guy Haight Jr., to submit his Y-DNA. The results did confirm that he is a
descendant of Simon, but how he descends from him is still unknown.
My married name is
Schultz, and we do not have any connection to Spokane. My husband's grandfather immigrated to San
Francisco in the 1880s. His name was really Schuetz,
but the spelling was changed after he arrived.
Thank you very much for
writing to me. I have enjoyed looking
at your website before and appreciate all of the work that has gone into it.
Sincerely,
Jo Anne Haight Schultz
Cecil Guy Haight Sr—Father
Samuel Haight—Grandfather
Francis Marion
Haight—Great Grandfather
Benjamin Kip Haight—Great
Great Grandfather
2nd Email from Jo
Anne Schultz
Dear John,
Thank you so much for looking in the HHH book. I bought a copy many years
ago and using it and many other sources have built up a great database in
my TMG software. When we started out on this journey, we thought it would
be easy considering that Benjamin had the middle name of Kip. So, we also
explored the Kip family in New York, but have never found a family that could
or would claim our ancestor. I do have the certificate of marriage for Benjamin,
but there is no information on his origins. I live with the hope that a perfect
Y-dna match will turn up! Thank you, also, for including my information on
your website. I am very appreciative.
Sincerely,
Jo Anne